What Not to Say in Mexico (and What You Should Say Instead): A Guide for Americans Visiting Mexico is exciting, but there are a few things to keep in mind when chatting with locals. While Mexicans are incredibly hospitable, certain phrases or topics can make you stand out (and not in a good way). Here’s a light-hearted guide on what not to say, what you should say, and why! 🗣️ 1. Don’t Say: “Do you speak Mexican?” Nope. Just…no. Spanish is the official language of Mexico, and “Mexican” is a nationality, not a language. Saying this is like asking someone in America if they speak “American.” You’ll get raised eyebrows and possibly a gentle geography lesson. ✅ Say Instead: “¿Hablas español?”This phrase translates to “Do you speak Spanish?” It’s polite and much more accurate. Plus, Mexicans will appreciate the effort you’re making to engage in their language, even if it’s just for basic pleasantries. 🌶️ 2. Don’t Say: “This food is spicy, but I can handle it. I’m from Texas!” We get it, you love your spicy foods. But Mexican heat is a whole other ballgame. The chilies here are not messing around, and bragging about your spice tolerance might invite a local to challenge you with a dish that could blow your socks off. Plus, there’s something called respect for the chili gods. ✅ Say Instead: “I love trying new foods—what do you recommend?”This phrase opens up a fun conversation and avoids a potentially tearful encounter with a habanero. Locals love sharing their favorite dishes, and they might guide you to something spicy, but manageable for mere mortals. 🤠 3. Don’t Say: “I thought everyone in Mexico wore sombreros!” While sombreros do exist, they’re not part of the everyday wardrobe in Mexico. Wearing one in a non-ironic way is like expecting everyone in Texas to wear cowboy hats 24/7. It’s a stereotype, and no one likes those. ✅ Say Instead: “I’d love to learn more about Mexican culture!”This is your friendly way of diving into the richness of Mexican traditions without assuming everyone lives in a cartoon version of “The Three Amigos.” You’ll be met with stories about Mexican food, music, and yes, maybe some traditional dress—but on their terms. 🌎 4. Don’t Say: “In America, we…” Mexico is part of America—North America, to be exact. Referring to the United States as “America” can be seen as an example of U.S.-centric thinking. Mexico, Canada, and other countries are also part of the Americas, so be mindful of this. ✅ Say Instead: “In the U.S., we…”It’s a small adjustment, but it makes a world of difference. Acknowledging that you’re from the United States avoids accidentally excluding other countries from the “American” club. 😲 5. Don’t Say: “Wow, your English is really good!” Complimenting someone’s language skills can feel patronizing, especially if that person has spoken English fluently for years. It’s like saying, “I’m surprised you’re good at something.” ✅ Say Instead: “I appreciate how well we can communicate.”This feels more like a compliment to both parties, fostering a positive exchange rather than an awkward one. Plus, you’re not implying that they’re good despite being from Mexico. 🏖️ 6. Don’t Say: “Mexico? Oh, I know Cabo really well!” Yes, Cabo is lovely, but if the only part of Mexico you’re familiar with is the beach resort areas, you might come across as someone who’s only interested in the tourist traps. There’s so much more to Mexico! ✅ Say Instead: “I’d love to explore more of Mexico—any recommendations?”This shows a genuine curiosity about the country. You’ll likely get suggestions for places beyond the beaches, like the magical towns of San Miguel de Allende or the vibrant capital, Mexico City. 🚫 7. Don’t Say: “How do you feel about the border?” Just… don’t. Immigration and border issues are complex and politically charged. Bringing this up casually might make things uncomfortable, even if you’re just curious. No need to walk into that landmine. ✅ Say Instead: “Tell me more about life here!”This opens the door to a range of conversations that will give you a better sense of Mexico without diving into political territory. You’ll get a more enriching cultural experience by focusing on everyday life, traditions, and local highlights. ✈ Travel is all about learning and growing, and making a few missteps is inevitable. But with a little care, you can avoid some common faux pas and make sure your time in Mexico is filled with friendly, fun exchanges. So, next time you head south of the border, use these tips, and most importantly—have a blast! 📸 Photo courtesy of www.freepick.com